I am a caregiver/Mother of a LVAD recipient

My son is 21 y.o. and was implanted with an LVAD on Jan 14th, 2013. He had to have 2 teeth surgically removed to prevent infection while being considered for his transplant and with his LVAD. He came home from the hospital on Feb 3rd. Since this time he's had bleeding from both extractions and I mean heavy bleeding that landed us in our local ER. Thank God for Surgicel! We've got that under control but my son is dealing with so much depression. I try to encourage him to take this new life one day at a time. It's very stressful for him and I. I am his caregiver, I have to keep up with the housecleaning, laundry...etc. I also am taking care of my 29 y.o. son that was brutally stabbed 9 times back on Dec. 18th, 2012. He has only been out of the hospital 4 days before my younger son with the LVAD. I dress his wounds daily. My son desperately needs to talk to people in the same situation as him, whether it be on this site, facebook or even by phone. Anyone that has been through this surgery and are having a positive experience I would appreciate it if you could help him out. His name is Trevor Samples. He's on facebook and I sent him a link to join this site. I've been off work for a week in Dec. when my older son was in this trauma and now this time I've been off work since Jan 2nd and will not go back to work until Feb 24th. I pray by this time my son with the LVAD will be more independant and confident of self care. If he's still having problems, I'll not go back to work until he's able to handle this a little better. My husband and I are not rich people, heck we live paycheck to paycheck. Actually, I make more money than him, but I cannot and will not leave my son without help. I'm a firm believer in God and Faith. God has helped me through these situations that we've experienced and I put my trust in him. People have been so generous with helping my oldest son get to his Dr's appts that are 2 and a half hours away from our home. I'll have to travel the same distance to take my younger son to his follow up visits and I have Faith that we'll get help with that too. This is such a hard situation that I'm in. I'd truly appreciate any help with contacting my son with some positive things about the LVAD experience that anyone has had. Thanks and God Bless!